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It sounds silly I know, but it’s easy to get dehydrated when you’re coming buckets. It’s not much good if you are open and willing but your partner is judgemental and close-minded. It also promotes the release of regenerating and emotionally bonding hormones into the bloodstream. You will need a partner who sees things this way as well. Kegels, as discussed earlier, will give you more confidence that you won’t pee.

Here is a bunch of different techniques, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your girl. You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubed (learn about your lube options) so it goes in smoothly. Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can coat your finger with her natural wetness before penetrating her.

This is when the Skene’s gland, found on the anterior wall of her vagina, will fill with fluid [4]. You can help her relax by making the whole experience a fun, sexy experiment for both of you to try together. Don’t make her feel like she has to do this for you or otherwise you’ll be disappointed. For a woman to be able to squirt it is as much mental as it is physical. If she is stressed or uncomfortable with her surroundings, she will not be able to squirt.

Continue running your fingertips along the top wall of her vagina to feel for different textures and surfaces. There’s nothing better than having a truly, sexually fulfilled girlfriend or wife. But if you don’t know exactly what you’re doing in the bedroom (and learning from an expert is the best way to find out) you could be risking her being sexually unsatisfied.

If you’re skilled enough how to squirt, do this while rubbing your clit. You can also use sex toys to make it easier for yourself to squirt and feel extra pleasure. Your partner will need to be really relaxed and in my personal experience that’s easier to do if I have something else to concentrate on, rather than having my vagina take centre stage. So a 69 position has worked well for me – providing welcome distraction when the pressure of trying to squirt is preventing it from actually happening.